People love to answer this with negativity about the dumper. Being the dumper who still contacts my ex, I will give you one reason that isn't negative.
After ignoring each other for a few weeks, we eventually started to talk again, formally. I had hopes he would regret acting like he did before the break up and eventually accept to have a discussion to reconcile. But he never did. He sometimes sends me memes, sometimes a very little chat, a little joke, a little flirty comment and disappears fast. Sometimes he surprises me with little gifts (things he knows I will need soon). But still no serious discussion and he doesn't come if I invite him to eat together. It's hot (lukewarm) and cold the whole time.
So in conclusion: A woman doesn't always dump to fuck better looking guys. Sometimes she loves with her whole heart and just puts clear boundaries which aren't respected and force her to break up to avoid suffering too much.
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If you want to know why your ex still contacts you, ask her. If you still have feelings for her, adress every issues and try again if you both feel you can find solutions together. Own your bullshit too, remember you both did wrong things. And if she send mixed signals, looks insincere, just block her and move on.
I love him very much but I broke up because he wasn't invested in our starting relationship, had a passive attitude despite having said he had feelings for me. I rarely got any messages. IRL he didn't talk much either, rarely asked me anything about me and always talked about his ex and women he was having situationships with. The whole thing looked like a tug of war I had to win against a few other women that had his attention.
All those mixed feelings... It's been quite some months now since the break up and my last hopes are diminishing fast. I hope I will be able to move on because this situation has been very tiring, so nerve-wrecking.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
I broke up the first time he ghosted me. I told myself that he couldn't possibly have feelings for me if he can allow himself to disrespect me like that, if he doesn't come to discuss issues and if it's Ok for him to make me feel insecure and cry the whole night. Heck, he was showing no interest in what kind of person I was.
To me this is nonsensical. I wanted to be with him, us to love, support and take care of each other, experience many things and start a family if things went well. And if he wanted all that, he would have given his all and ended things with the other women. I am not supposed to force him to chose me. So…
